God has been slowly bringing me back to my role as a single woman and the responsibilities I have to him in my singleness. In I Corinthinians 7:34-35, Paul speaks of the unmarried woman as one who cares about the things of the Lord and is holy in body and spirit. He also states that he says things to encourage us and tell us we are more readily available to serve the Lord without distraction.
In today's fast-paced world, there are many distractions that surround me and beg for my attention. To be perfectly honest, I have been distracted most of my life. Yes, I have even been a distracted Christian. Oh, I do many things and serve in my church. I go I mission trips, but when was the last time I smiled and said hello to my neighbor. When have I shared Christ to those around me?
My season of singleness is a preparation, a readying for friendships and relationships. I must first be rightly related to God. I am supposed to be holy--set apart--in body and spirit. That is a specific task and requirement for a single woman. I must take care of my body so it can be set apart and used for God. Whew, that is a tough one. What does that look like? Do I eat healthy in moderation? Do I exercise? Do I go to sleep at a decent hour? Do I use my time wisely and effectively?
I have begun to do this but have not been totally dedicated to this cause.
I must also be set apart in spirit. That means I must be seeking God with my whole heart. What does that look like? Does that mean I am at church every time the doors are open? Serving on every committee? Teaching a Sunday School class? Emailing all of our missionaries?
This doesn't necessarily mean we are growing in spirit. We can't earn God's favor; He freely gives it. I've learned in the past few months, that growth in sprirt occurs with daily time spent with God in His Word, prayer, and just being in His presence.
I must take care of my body and spirit so God can use me, and I will be able to serve Him without distraction. I also realize I can't do this on my own, so I must surrender to God and allow him to work in me.